It was a lavish party. As lavish as I had read in The Great Gatsby. I had gotten used to it. Marrying a business tycoon had some privileges after all. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not a money seeking ‘whatever-adjective-you-want-to-add’. It was my parent’s decision. They had known his family for long and thought it would be good to tie knots and extend their loyalties towards each other. I did not have a boyfriend whom I would have loved to marry instead. Therefore, I had willfully agreed with their choice myself.
I had no complaints from the marriage. It was unlike those romance fantasies, but it was good. However, I hated attending the parties. Not because I was an introvert or a boring person, but because he made me wear those skimpy party gowns and dresses. I hated wearing those revealing outfits and thus I had asked him for the second time to allow me choose something decent. The answer again was a stern look. According to him, this was how I was supposed to be dressed because he wanted to show everybody that he had a beautiful wife.
The statement had hurt me more than I could imagine. Apparently, a sheer piece of clothing was what made me beautiful; no matter how embarrassed it made me feel.
I had no complaints from the marriage. It was unlike those romance fantasies, but it was good. However, I hated attending the parties. Not because I was an introvert or a boring person, but because he made me wear those skimpy party gowns and dresses. I hated wearing those revealing outfits and thus I had asked him for the second time to allow me choose something decent. The answer again was a stern look. According to him, this was how I was supposed to be dressed because he wanted to show everybody that he had a beautiful wife.
The statement had hurt me more than I could imagine. Apparently, a sheer piece of clothing was what made me beautiful; no matter how embarrassed it made me feel.
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26 comments
Write commentsBeen enjoying your A2Z posts!
ReplyEnjoying your post immensely. This particular post reminding me of a women's group I belonged a few years back. This very scenario had her in tears because her husband wanting her to dress seductively in public. Much to my dismay, the other women were supporting her husbands decision. I never returned to the group needless to say.
ReplyI love this. I'm lucky to be married to a man who loves me for me, not what I wear... but I have been in the situation Shonda mentions... where a woman feels forced to wear something to please her husband but it offends her sensibilities. I don't see it any different than a woman being forced to wear a hijab if it is not her choice but her husbands...
Replywe all love to show off, it hurts but others
ReplyOooo.. what an interesting story and the reality you have put in into it..!!
ReplyBeauty is not defined by the clothes one wears, it comes from within . Blimey, that was deep - not like me at all!
ReplyNice piece .. of writing.
ReplyReally enjoying this, thanks! I'll be back tomorrow :)
ReplyHow terrible for her! That's not a nice husband.
ReplyI loved the way you shined a light on what it feels like to be treated in this way. Thank you.
ReplyA-Z , till E you have made me your Fan !
ReplyWell.. yes there are some stupid people like him. Well written Anmol.
ReplySuch men should be killed. I see so many men in Bangalore who marry women from the villages and bring them here. Then they are forced to wear clothes that they clearly are uncomfortable wearing. My heart goes out to such women.
ReplyThank you Vinitha :)
ReplyIt hurts that this is not a fiction but something that happens with so many girls around the world :(
ReplyThanks for dropping by :)
Every girl deserves to be 'lucky' :) They deserve it.
ReplyYes, I have read about some of the similar situations and thus decided to write about it. Thanks for dropping by :)
Could not understand your comment fully.
ReplyThank you Geetika :)
ReplyExactly :)
ReplyThank you Kokila :)
ReplyThank you Sarah :)
ReplyYes, he's not. She deserves better :)
ReplyThank you Kathy :)
ReplyWow, that's a huge compliment. Thank you :)
ReplyThank you Jyotsna :) Yes there are. I've read about such men.
ReplyExactly Soumya. I know and have read about some of such cases over the web.
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